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How to speak so that people want to listen | Julian Treasure

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Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody is listening? Here's Julian Treasure to help you fix that. As the sound expert demonstrates some useful vocal exercises and shares tips on how to speak with empathy, he offers his vision for a sonorous world of listening and understanding. Get TED Talks recommended just for you! Learn more at https://www.ted.com/signup. The TED Talks channel features the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more. Follow TED on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/TEDTalks Like TED on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: https://www.youtube.com/TED
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Stace Tacuyan (11 hours ago)
very well <3 HAIL!
TheDeeceebee (15 hours ago)
Informative lecture on how to transform yourself into A COLOSSAL BORE.
Tiara Ko (15 hours ago)
POTATO GaMiNg (23 hours ago)
At 1:26 the old guy with glasses is a good listener
Infinity Dante (1 day ago)
wow :)
Gary Schnakenberg (2 days ago)
Obumer spoke with a silver tongue...then sold everyone out.
Trying to get better at this every single day!
Stephen Stinson (4 days ago)
Looks like a very rich turtle
prashant bhardwaj (4 days ago)
Roy L (4 days ago)
He thinks he's saying something original. Boring....don't want to listen to any more...
Fake Noose (4 days ago)
people are so fucking full of bullshit
Alek Sullivan (4 days ago)
I know a few narcissistic people they suck at talking to that’s why I don’t lol
jewel and friends (4 days ago)
Watching in 2019 makes me realize whats wrong with myself then.
Taylor Maxwell (5 days ago)
Thank you for this very helpful share!
Cyndi moore (5 days ago)
Talk fast. Use plain language. Speak clear no mumbling. Enjoy what your saying. Dont beg for attention with your eyes, lose credibility. No manipulation, not everyone is mind controlled easily. Dont rabbit trail. Do not get emotional. Speak with questions and answers. Only ask for advice if you're willing to take it. Otherwise you make people refuse to listen the next time you speak. Hopelessness is catchier than hope. Repeat important points at the end.
Benny Blanco (5 days ago)
This has 20 million views? Crazy this is legit dale carngie.. how to win friends and influence people.. don’t criticize condemn or complain
Istikharah Noordin (6 days ago)
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punit bayad (6 days ago)
Ronnie Hammade (6 days ago)
The amount of memes...
Kai Creative (7 days ago)
Don't watch this in a public place with headphones in... You'll thank me later... ;) . . . Ba, ba, ba, ba, ba...; Brrrrr....... La, la, la, la, la....; Rrrrrr..... WeeeeeeeeeAaaaawwww
MaYar ELMELIGI (7 days ago)
شكرآ لتقديم هذه الترجمة
Monika Vrublova (8 days ago)
Great talk 👍 Definitely helpful and so the right time to listen to this at this point of my life journey 😊 Thank you 🙏 Mon 🌞
TheGrindeveryday (8 days ago)
I’m guilty of all of these. Omg
Joe Jameson (8 days ago)
I find that those that won't or don't listen often respond with a good smack upside the head!
materialclassified * (8 days ago)
I don't need to listen to this crap.
Bryan Slankster (9 days ago)
This talk was just a bunch of negativity and bitching about how everyone talks.
Reamann MacBiatiagh (9 days ago)
We Vote for Politicians with deep voices,,, then why oh why did we vote for Theresa May,,,,, Oh wait,, we didn't,, she's there by default!
Gstaff Africa (9 days ago)
wow amazing
Patricia Egan (9 days ago)
Also, I'm in favor of quiet, shhhhh. Balance yourself and concentrate!
Patricia Egan (9 days ago)
p.s. I like what you had to say. Thanks.
Patricia Egan (9 days ago)
I've never been able to do the "roiling r". Why? It doesn't appear to be hard to do, so why can't I?
bartakin (9 days ago)
People listen and I speak a language the truth a power that scares and offends the stupid..
andrew padilla (7 days ago)
bartakin it’s the ignorance of them wanting to know what’s right when all they know is wrong. I row the same boat as you, one day you’ll speak to people who truly understand. Until then continue speak the truth!
lila 123456789 (10 days ago)
Direct communication will make a great difference Because obviously not every song is about her and so forth. Just tell what you feel directly.
Marina Elisa (10 days ago)
I was just thinking how I want to be the best communicator for My YouTube Channel but most importantly in life.. I’m starting to think my phone can read my mind. Big Data anyone?
mracoris (11 days ago)
I would mention empathy. I think it is realy important as well.
Mtt Office (11 days ago)
Nice info sir
Sophie. Howitt (11 days ago)
Darren McKoy (12 days ago)
This was some great information. Taking notes
Henry Kuto (12 days ago)
HereAfter Now! (12 days ago)
Please don't misuse the word "awesome"
That last bit, that's why I sometimes dislike loud bars/pubs. You can't have a normal conversation.
Anna Vajda (12 days ago)
But I don't like all the attention always.
Raouf Benghida (12 days ago)
Very interesting object , thanks
Mamun Music Studio (13 days ago)
I dont know english.... How to education in English... Pls tell me...
Coach Tony Paul (13 days ago)
The voice/sound warm up exercises are given in any acting 101 class. This is the most boring video ever. People pay to go see this guy? What a racket .. rather just take melatonin to sleep ..
Nizam Mahamood (14 days ago)
Lastly, be bald.
A N (14 days ago)
What if someone heard me warming my voice? Especially that important someone you were actually supposed to talk to😂😂
Verity A (13 days ago)
A N 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
T C (14 days ago)
Love how we turn the idiot cows into "squealing pigs"...and on top of it all he was profess'ing to teaching them how to communicate. You fucks praise him...oops was I negative.
Discovery Center (14 days ago)
No further change allowed it's done in childhood
I sense a strong dictator vibe about that guy. Forced myself to watch til the end to judge and the last bit really confirms this. Yes, you can call it opinion, and you can also call it judging. And, I'm not giving arguments. But that's the very thing he does and it doesn't have mistruths in it, like, people will listen to you more if you're honest and nice than if you're loud and you gossip.
shuaib ahmed (15 days ago)
Hoang Anh Tran (15 days ago)
Well, you know that exaggeration becomes lying.
Priya Nagar (15 days ago)
Ember2460 Harrington (16 days ago)
Honking Car Locking Wakes People Up and Causes Stress Especially for Oeople with Cardiac Disease Ptsd Hypertension Migraines and More. Please Lock Your Car Quietly with Light Flash Only. Thank You.
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So boring and depressing
stevenstrumpf7 (17 days ago)
How to talk so that people will listen. 1.Find some bullshit 2.Be consistent with it
Samaira Kapoor (17 days ago)
This is such an amazing video
Radhae Krishna (17 days ago)
Nice one. Many misuse this power as well ☺
MrKatzengreis (17 days ago)
01:33 - BREXIT !!
태규장 (17 days ago)
SANDGLASSMAN (17 days ago)
ขอบคุณคร้าบบบ thx
istiklalcaddesi (17 days ago)
Great talk!!!
Robert Von Esch III (17 days ago)
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E.j Allan (18 days ago)
Ignez Maciel (18 days ago)
Don't say anything at all. People will love it.
before and after (18 days ago)
People will listen to you if you just have money .
Kristoff Labuschagne (19 days ago)
Very inspiring talk! Thank you!
georgiegirlize (19 days ago)
really good until the end//// no no, that would be a world full of robots and controlled by Big Brother. prefer the imperfections actually ..!
aes (19 days ago)
*How to make a title so people will click*
Larry Fine (20 days ago)
Lost me with the voice exercises.
Dee Davis (18 days ago)
Professional speakers and singers do voice exercises. If you’re in neither of these categories you shouldn’t be concerned.
Alexander Borge (20 days ago)
easy to judge AND be liked at the same time.. just be nice to everyone except that person you judged lol
Stop Procrastinating (20 days ago)
AE PUBG (20 days ago)
Frank Savage (20 days ago)
Avoid these things for a great night out! ....Violence/Politics/Religion/Gossip/ basically you cant have a bad evening!
Missipsa Miss (20 days ago)
There has to be variations in the manner that ones vocalize or communicating in the human species. Variability is a key for survival.
android world (21 days ago)
so doing the exercise is ok,or I need to do somethhing else
MowgLy STAR (22 days ago)
M too much por in tgis things but I love every people they are good and m trying to develope myself as a good person in every aspect.
Baby Chris (22 days ago)
I'm not really a good speaker ... But I'm trying to do everything to change it.. thank you for this
Larry Fine (20 days ago)
And that will make you a GREAT speaker! You have the drive and motivation. My experiences with public speaking is that I find the experience easier if I focus on one person at a time. Move throughout the room of people in the manner, it seems to "shrink" the size of the audience. Also, the more you speak the better you get! Knock em dead!
Allen Huang (22 days ago)
Varys from game of thrones anyone?
Inacio Fernandes (22 days ago)
Weird Name (23 days ago)
Why are u americans so hates another countries accents?
Joe Nichols (23 days ago)
Goes on about not gossiping. Then proceeds to gossip on his mother and everyone in the UK. Lol
you121 me (24 days ago)
he said the rrrrr is like champagne to the tongue. i'm learning Arabic and it has so many of them.
Vivro virno (23 days ago)
ellhamdulillah brother
youtube youtube (24 days ago)
The British are a weird people
Juan Daugherty (25 days ago)
Called bullshit at 03:47. A lot of the stuff at the beginning made sense, and because it does an intelligent speaker would (not) do those things instinctively. Why would I care whether or not the ignorant and uncomprehending masses are listening when I speak? I might in fact care, carelessly like when I speak to a dog or cat or a small child but that's quite different from taking the notion that you can persuade people who are committed to not thinking to somehow do so by rhetoric or other jacking.
Rafath Fathima (26 days ago)
and yet he's sleeping at 1:24
Hal Eloi (28 days ago)
Gossip: The reason i quit church.
angel david (28 days ago)
Is android superior than iphone an opinion or a statement?
Android Last (29 days ago)
what was he talking about ?
Mujahid Syed (29 days ago)
The fact that they didn't add 1-2 seconds to get 10 minutes shows their real intentions.
Yoko Nono (23 days ago)
Mujahid Syed damn right. I love Ted talks. They’re good for the soul!
Mujahid Syed (23 days ago)
+Yoko Nono yep, they deserve every penny
Yoko Nono (23 days ago)
Mujahid Syed but they still got an ad !
Mujahid Syed (29 days ago)
How to get people to listen to you: Step 1= Get on the stage at a Ted Talk about "How to speak so that people want you to listen."
Mujahid Syed (29 days ago)
My mom still won't listen to me.
Yuarian Smith (30 days ago)
Best way to get listened is to speak what the listener wants to hear. That's how most politicians work.
Yuval (1 month ago)
Is he an elf?
Kaynak Öner Kaynak (1 month ago)
why did except few person nobody laugh after they stood up?actually this act show that we are hopeless for the world's future
vinh dang (1 month ago)
ries (1 month ago)
Me: "stops watching after half the video"
Nick Marr (1 month ago)
Julian its clear that Self-disclosure is one of the best techniques
HARE (1 month ago)
Lmfaoooo is that Milo Yiannopoulos at 8:17 ???
Nadim Hossain (1 month ago)
Who is watching in 2019??

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