Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody is listening? Here's Julian Treasure to help you fix that. As the sound expert demonstrates some useful vocal exercises and shares tips on how to speak with empathy, he offers his vision for a sonorous world of listening and understanding.
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Carl Rogers person centred therapy uses these skills, basically be congruent and stop facetiousness.......try empathising with the person as much as possible..........if someone doesn’t listen or want to listen, try some quiet then listen to their pish 😂
So boring and dull I couldn't watch more than 3 minutes. I like people that get to the point, convey the facts quickly, and not butter people up, use fake positivity, or try to inject humor they don't have. This man wastes time.
How to speak on a way people want to listen? Fill 9:58 minutes of NOTHING and make it look helpful.
"Be honest, be yourself and love the others" No way ! Genius! How has NOBODY thought that before
Give this idiot a medal.
My daughter speaks so quietly to her children 12/16 years old that they have become excellent listeners. She looks at them intently - when they are not listening she will follow her words with silence. I then hear this from my grandchildren- What! I am listening. My daughter says - What did you hear? (I love that because she uses silence when she sees a puzzled look- a look of disagreement- a look of frustration)
She guides the conversation until she is understood then she says - Come and see me when ... is done. My grandchildren know this means when ... is done - it will be there turn to speak and be understood. I love to be at their house. It has the sweetest atmosphere.
A tutorial like this is great, I got new inspiration from this video. But in reality the listener may be worse, especially the headstrong one and it also depends on how influencing is your authority. At the end of the day when no alternative way, you have to use "soft" threatening way to influence others. Imagine that as a small peasant you try to ask Donald Trump to stop the trade war and make the world peace just by not interfering other countries by harmful way and see what is his response...... Every person still has their own selfishness...
How to speak so that people want to listen. Simply , speak the truth> when somebody speaks only the truth many people listen if they like it or not. When the truth is against somebody people should also listen because they must make certain improvements in their behavior. Most importantly the only one requirement from our Creators is "always speak the truth". When people lie other people suffer. but those people who lie suffer most. Why? Because our nature provided us with a conscious mind and with judging tools so that we can tell the right from wrong. So Yes, we must be judgmental. We have this ability to judge and I imply here judging accurately and correctly and not lying. About negativity, just analyse the english language and you get a very good idea about not only negativity but contradictory meanings. two examples: the word understand is made of two words. "Under and stand" It implies here that you must not understand but to stand under. the word off course meaning to be on the wrong path. I know why. Do you? And by the way your name is Treasure. Complaining . the society should be organized in such a manner so that people can complain about other people's behavior and some officials to take action. like North Korea. Lying . who are the lyers of the world??????And why. I know who and I know why. Do you under stand ? Mr. Treasure????????
What if people can’t stand the truth? (TRUMP Voters, cult members, incompetent CEO’s, etc...) What if people and even entire societies have built their ENTIRE existence around dogmatism? (Religion) What if people are actually more popular and actually move higher up in an organization by engaging in occasional gossiping? (This is a researched fact). What if complaining actually releases stress and decreases cortisol levels? (Also another TED talk). What if it isn’t words, but actions that determine whether or not people will “listen” to you? What if there were TED talks that offered almost no research to back up their claims, but instead had people making absurd animal noises because of mindless group-think? What if the pulp-TED talks people came up with were nothing more than marketing stunts to gain views /clickbait to further their business interests and “consulting” speaker fees? Hmmmm... what if?
HAIL: HARMONIES ARROGANCE ILLUSIONS LUCK IS NOT NEGATIVE BUT A FEEDBACK OF YOUR PASSWORD HAD BEEN TELLING YOU HAD WRONGLY ENTRY YOU PASSWORD AND YOU HAD ONLY SIGN IN LATER WHERE IS THE CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION IN IT.
I’ve only recently found TED. TED is good TED is. Thanks to Julian for sharing his brilliant talent in the ten minute video on how to get listened to and to deliver a message brilliantly well. I’m off to practice my We-awes now. As well as HAIL I must try to avoid the things we can all do if we’re not too careful. Great video. Made my day. 👍
Very few people have something to say that I have not heard too many times already. It is the biggest problem. Another teacher, teaching me something they've copied and pasted from someone else. I stopped listening to this speech at 7:37.
H A I L = Honesty, Authenticity, Integrity and Love - things all missing in our current POTUS - YET enough people listened to his words, to believe he should be in the Oval Office. Go Figure.
That's certainly goes against just about everything Julian said.
Ridge Briar No I asked you is it true that 911 happened on September 11 2001. You dodged the question and went on a rant about your reasons for distinguishing truth and fact (which there are none).
You dodged the question because you know that the answer would dismantle your tirade.
+Matt Brown I HAVE ANSWERED YOUR QUESTIONS IN DEPTH, YOU JUST CAN'T COMPREHEND THEM. A SIGN OF INTELLIGENCE, IS REALIZING HOW MUCH YOU DO NOT KNOW. YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT CONCEPT BEFORE YOU MAKE A BIGGER FOOL OUT OF YOURSELF.
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